Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff.

09-12-2008, 01:17 AM

My husband of over 30 years just came in (Mr Practical and down to earth man), and told me, 'you still reading that Avalon .....? He went on to say "What I am worried about is what other wierd ......" your are going to get into now." - Mr Enlightenment

TranceAm · 09-12-2008, 01:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tuza

My husband of over 30 years just came in (Mr Practical and down to earth man), and told me, 'you still reading that Avalon .....? He went on to say "What I am worried about is what other wierd ......" your are going to get into now." - Mr Enlightenment

Sounds like a very stimulating environment for an inquiring mind.

Checking calender here, But yes, it is 2008 and the dark ages were over some time ago....

Cookie · 09-12-2008, 01:34 AM

Oh, Tuza! I feel for you, honey! lol! You just tell him that you're all grown up now and that he's your hubby not your daddy!

SynchrOMicity · 09-12-2008, 01:41 AM

Sounds like you need to go and give him a huggy kissy, and after he's snoring get back on line. Peace and good luck!!!

Norval · 09-12-2008, 03:57 AM

30 years, that is quite honorable indeed. Keep the peace. We grew up with the threat of
atomic war. Now we KNOW we face a threat from other outside and extraterrestrial
sources. Or, is it salvation? I think it is worth checking out at least. As the MAN of the
house is your butt in the noose if you don't. Protect your wife, help her understand why all
of this is happening today.

SkyWatcher · 09-12-2008, 02:04 PM

I had to laugh when I read this thread. My hubby has been through quite a bit recently, really stretching his belief system (he is a Catholic in remission) who leans towards Buddism.
When we finally figured out that our daughter (his little princess) is a Crystal child and is psychic. She can read her daddy's mind in a hot second. She has been telling him of the things she sees, like ghosts, fairies, etc.
I laugh, because he knows that I am clairaudient, so is our son (Indigo).

So when I read this thread, it made me chuckle. Been down that road, and am still walking it daily.

Remember, "The proof is in the pudding." When something goes down, and you know you have read it on this form, you can refer back to that thread to validate yourself. He'll catch on.
(by the way, we just celebrated our 19th Anniv. on the 9th of Sept., together 21 years.
My love and light to you.
Nancy

Theresa · 09-12-2008, 02:55 PM

I aplogize that this opinion won't be very helpful in terms of "keeping the peace", most likely, but I will say this.

I have found that I really have to be with someone who is willing to expand vibrationally to be in a healthy space. That being said, if they are willing to allow me to be MYSELF, and explore the world the way I have to to keep growing, then I can work with them too, wherever they are. But if they start dictating to me the boundaries I'm "allowed" to live under, so that they don't feel threatened, well, that's always the beginning of the end for me in relationship.

I can hear you about this and it brings me back about 15 years. Needless to say, that relationship didn't last. I know most people have way more tolerance than me, though.

09-12-2008, 05:11 PM

That's too bad about what he said.

if you get a chance to speak civilly, I would say that Project Avalon doesn't control how you think, but it is a reminder that there is much more going on in the world than most people realize.

you can give credibility to this movement by reminding people that Economists have been predicting the collapse of Freddie Mac and Fannie Mae for more than 5 years, long before this so called "subprime mortgage crisis" ... "snuck up on us."

there's a lot like this, just tell him to google something he's interested in and read about it. for instance; there is actually no oil shortage in the us, because the US has two of the largest oil deposits in the world available in the rockies and the Dakotas (I think about $4.3trillion to $43trillion estimated value). The oil crisis has been manufactured in order to raise oil prices, among other things.

good luck.

Kate · 09-12-2008, 11:36 PM

Hi Tuza, Patti and Norvel are right! It is indeed a long time you have been together....and hopefully u will continue to be..

My advice ( for what its worth) is to just keep your convictions clear...continue to do whatever u can/need to for the preparation of 'something' which we are all anticipating!!

Your not alone hun!! there will be millions of us out there trying to juggle our own 'knowledge' with the surreal 'matrix' most people consider to be 'real'..and it is HARD at times...it is confusing, isolating and frustrating!! but you now have a place to share and identify, and you will get support!

trust your instinct and carry on relardless!! lol your partner is entitled to opinions..but you have done the research and he probably hasnt!
follow your heart and let the love flow regardless of 'blocks'

peace to you now and always!

fire

QUESTINY · 09-13-2008, 02:05 AM

It is easier for our spouses to reject such things. It is a lonely road to find truth and wisdom. When you are spiritually and physically preparing just make a place for him. You will need to be the leader when things get tough and you will have the answers to move him in the right direction. He did not prepare. On the same token, the fact that you are here posting shows that you are preparing and growing. We will all grow with you and you will show him your strength in such matters when the time is right. He will need you. His talents and expertise you will rely on and he will learn yours. May your journey be full of excitement.

mntruthseeker · 09-13-2008, 02:23 AM

Sorry, but I cant seem to stop laughing at your post. I have been with my hubby for 38 yrs and we have been arguing non stop over all of this. He wants to break my lap top. Laughing even harder now. It's all the lap top that my son gave me you know.

Oh Dear, be careful. The cops have him convinced Im schizzo. I even got taken to hospital.

You know, the best part of all of this, is I feel so wonderful hearing and researching each and every source. I know that this can't be wrong as it feels so right. Too many with same story.

Anyhow, I love him when he comes in here very quietly and tells me what just showed up on TV. LOL

Tell your hubby to join or let it go. I know YOU will not, you have been kissed. LOL ss I just feel for you.

Maybe the two of them can play cards or something. Can you imagine telling them that about sports?

SkyWatcher · 09-13-2008, 02:44 AM

This may seem like a stupid question, but why only husbands? Are there any women that think that their spouses/partners have bats in their belfry because they have become "enlightened?" Not all people walk to the beat of same drummer.

Greg10036 · 10-19-2008, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by SkyWatcher

This may seem like a stupid question, but why only husbands? Are there any women that think that their spouses/partners have bats in their belfry because they have become "enlightened?" Not all people walk to the beat of same drummer.

Someone once said a friend is someone before whom I can think outloud. Given that definition, there are very few, if any, friends in the world. This is not a stupid question SkyWatcher. The woman I live with threatened to kick me out of the house after the star people visited my house the third time. You would think she was tired of me inviting the boys over for poker night. I told them they had to lay off coming to my house. Plus the black helicopters were starting to look like a flying circus. So they have not visited since, except for my liason. They actually assigned a person to interact with me and he comes most of the time in vivid dreams. They told me they cause a lot of divorces. This experience has definitely changed our relationship. She knows I research the ufo phenomenon and all that. She tells me to "get my feet back on the ground." Whatever that means. I have had a forty year relationship with people from other planets. They came to me. I did not come to them. They are, I assume, contacting me for a reason. They do everything for a reason, and I hope I have not let them down in their expectations since they have put a lot of energy into our relationship. The full sociologic impact with contact experience and how it changes relationships has yet to be investigated, so far as I know. They are here. They are real. They aint gonna go away. Makes my life more interesting having my own personal X File. Peace.
g.

day · 10-20-2008, 04:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Greg10036

Someone once said a friend is someone before whom I can think outloud. Given that definition, there are very few, if any, friends in the world. This is not a stupid question SkyWatcher. The woman I live with threatened to kick me out of the house after the star people visited my house the third time. You would think she was tired of me inviting the boys over for poker night. I told them they had to lay off coming to my house. Plus the black helicopters were starting to look like a flying circus. So they have not visited since, except for my liason. They actually assigned a person to interact with me and he comes most of the time in vivid dreams. They told me they cause a lot of divorces. This experience has definitely changed our relationship. She knows I research the ufo phenomenon and all that. She tells me to "get my feet back on the ground." Whatever that means. I have had a forty year relationship with people from other planets. They came to me. I did not come to them. They are, I assume, contacting me for a reason. They do everything for a reason, and I hope I have not let them down in their expectations since they have put a lot of energy into our relationship. The full sociologic impact with contact experience and how it changes relationships has yet to be investigated, so far as I know. They are here. They are real. They aint gonna go away. Makes my life more interesting having my own personal X File. Peace.
g.

its true that our experiences can have a scary impact on loved ones, and while we are going through so many adjustments, they may feel frightened, and take it out on the ones they love.

2012survivor · 09-14-2008, 12:17 AM

I'm in opposite situation. I'm 33 and my down-on-earth accountant girlfriend suggested me to visit the doctor.
But as Bob Dean said in his interview with PC: People can't handle the truth. And I learnt not to tell everything I believe about this issue.
Actually I focus on economic crack down, and I tell her to remember Argentinian break down. And it's working, as with all of my friends. It's impossible that everything bad fall down at same time, so you can give little doses of information, in ascending order of credibility. You begin with USA-Iran affair, then economic collapse and you finish with andromedans and 4th density. There'll be time for explanations, but later.

Ceara · 09-14-2008, 12:25 AM

He's not telling you to stop reading it for your sake, but rather his.

He's afraid of what you'll become as a result and will leave him behind.

THE eXchanger · 09-14-2008, 12:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ceara

He's not telling you to stop reading it for your sake, but rather his.

He's afraid of what you'll become as a result and will leave him behind.

ceara--can you say B.I.N.G.O.

Kusala · 09-13-2008, 02:37 AM

Hey Tuza,
I feel this thread. Change, growth, and transformation are always challenging for partners, spouses, mates. It seems there is an inherent threat for many people when we begin to explore any new pathway. That goes for friends and family as well as I've gleaned from some other post. Questiny said it well...it is a lonely road to find truth and wisdom...perhaps more so when it has been found.

Some people in my life are wary of my relentless research, this growing urgency within, which I have to modulate daily. I really only articulate what is coalescing intuitively, in small doses with those that I am closest to. It is a delicate balance that we have to find with our partners, friends, etc. So much is happening so rapidly and as Firehorse said wisely, we still have to engage with the "surreal matrix" that still predominates many people's reality. It's maddening in a sense...and yet, an enigma which we must coexist with and be compassionate around. It's part of our practice.

Peace and blessings to you (and your husband).

Kelle Baley · 10-17-2008, 06:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Norval

30 years, that is quite honorable indeed. Keep the peace. We grew up with the threat of
atomic war. Now we KNOW we face a threat from other outside and extraterrestrial
sources. Or, is it salvation? I think it is worth checking out at least. As the MAN of the
house is your butt in the noose if you don't. Protect your wife, help her understand why all
of this is happening today.

Amen brother.

I found out yesterday that a dear friend I lost touch with last year and whom i had been frantically searching for again had just decided to fall and fail.

She had allegedly decided to allow her husbands needs come first whom has taken control of her life. She decided this after many years struggling in front of me promising to leave him while she could. Finally after being given a court ordered restraining order because one day he decided to threated her while cleaning one of his guns, she has become a "shell of the person she was". She chose to -get this- survive as a human. If I felt this had been any better currently, I would have already gotten my very resourceful partner having lots of Government training, etc. to have someone find her and bring her here somehow. I was told to let her go, that she has made a choice that now will not be stopped.

She is a mother of two amazing young daughters (wise and magical), used to sell beautiful hand made native Indian jewelry to which people readily bought daily; had forfeited by closing down her ten year psychic business and began to use more than alcohol to escape the torture of allowing him remain as the "father of her own beloved". Sad that she never found the grounding for seeing this differently.

All this surrender for someone else. What, in the name of sovereignty and self love can be this important to discover??
how to fail?
IT was then reported by good source that she had survived more than one attempt to end her life by poisoning from her own husband who has struggled to manage a 300,000 dollar a year salary while high functioning as an alcoholic (which was what I witnessed last year). I was further told not to contact her as she had actually decided to fork all her dreams over into the trash simply to survive the control that she fears will affect her friends and family too and now she isolates further. She is lost deeper in drugs than casual wine drinking.

My point here is not tragedy for survival......over what some one even sacred to us talks us into believing. It IS a shared reality.....because this is implicated; it is rather the following;

HOW MANY OF US do not REALIZE the POINT OF sacred partnering leading to devotions of creative output such as children and experiential joy? Partnering as sacred is honored in heart and mind if it acts to FACILITATE whom we are.
Sovereignty? who knows of this in most marriages?

Even if my own partner is absolutely opposite in the language of what is spiritually sacred to him yet we honor each others dreams and encourage one another even if we personally disagree with How it is that is full.
I have suffered the I want him my way syndrome long enough to realize that I am just whom I am wanting to travel very differently from what he wants.
perhaps this is the level facilitation that must be learned now to set our partners free into self love and unconditional love known.

THE RIGHT THINGS FOR OURSELVES....Isn't this about communing with our own inner Self that we truly long to commune with from moment to moment more than with any other?

-never sell out this good cause called marriage by trading out for the other's fear story or otherwise seeming re-fashioned reality for any price. the cost for returning is hell lived.
peace

lock'N'load · 09-14-2008, 12:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tuza

My husband of over 30 years just came in (Mr Practical and down to earth man), and told me, 'you still reading that Avalon .....? He went on to say "What I am worried about is what other wierd ......" your are going to get into now." - Mr Enlightenment

See will he show the same enthusiasm when you tell him to stop watching tv

I got that stuff from my family as well, as if im weird. I do admit, i may have a slight chemical imbalance but for the love of god at least i dont spend my time being told what to think.

Free thinkers are automatically exiled from society, so its up to you to show your husband the right way.

This sort of scenario amuses me to no length.

"And the wicked shall be deemed good, and the inteligent shall be deemed crazy"

THE eXchanger · 09-14-2008, 01:15 AM

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Originally Posted by lock'N'load

See will he show the same enthusiasm when you tell him to stop watching tv

[/I]

GOOD ONE...that was quite a good solution

once upon a time, in the history of the world
all the women, who had husbands/or lovers
they withheld sex...
this, in order to bring about peace
and, GET what they wanted

men at home, and, back in their beds

NOW, maybe sex back then,
was NOT as much fun

but, i do NOT think that could possibly be a truth !!!

is the past, repeating itself ???

It is important
to Learn to "stick" to your own gun
and, discovering how to be who you are...
is a very difficult thing to do

if one master,
does NOT let another,
learn how to be a master,
than one of them, is NOT a real master !!!

brightest blessings
of energy, light and love

susan~white lotus star
The eXchanger

09-14-2008, 01:27 AM

My Mom asked me today if voices were talking to me. I told her only when I ask their opinion.

peace,
cosmic

THE eXchanger · 09-14-2008, 01:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CosmicFever

My Mom asked me today if voices were talking to me. I told her only when I ask their opinion.

peace,
cosmic

my mother asked me the other day,
if i had signed my living will, and, if so,
who i had put on it ...

help ... i think, i might NEED a go-between

brightest blessings

susan
the eXchanger

Myra · 09-15-2008, 06:46 PM

[QUOTE=lock'N'load;] See will he show the same enthusiasm when you tell him to stop watching tv

Hahaha THAT would be interesting!

Matt · 09-14-2008, 01:42 AM

You have the right to choose what you do with your eyes. Be tactful though.

09-12-2008, 01:17 AM	#1
Tuza Guest Posts: n/a	Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. My husband of over 30 years just came in (Mr Practical and down to earth man), and told me, 'you still reading that Avalon .....? He went on to say "What I am worried about is what other wierd ......" your are going to get into now." - Mr Enlightenment

09-12-2008, 01:34 AM	#3
Cookie Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: USA Posts: 141	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. Oh, Tuza! I feel for you, honey! lol! You just tell him that you're all grown up now and that he's your hubby not your daddy!

09-12-2008, 01:41 AM	#4
SynchrOMicity Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: S.KY Foothills of the smokey's on a big lake,110 miles from any major city in a vortex Posts: 53	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. Sounds like you need to go and give him a huggy kissy, and after he's snoring get back on line. Peace and good luck!!!

09-12-2008, 03:57 AM	#5
Norval Banned Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: On a boat in Tacoma, wa, usa Posts: 394	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. 30 years, that is quite honorable indeed. Keep the peace. We grew up with the threat of atomic war. Now we KNOW we face a threat from other outside and extraterrestrial sources. Or, is it salvation? I think it is worth checking out at least. As the MAN of the house is your butt in the noose if you don't. Protect your wife, help her understand why all of this is happening today.

09-12-2008, 02:04 PM	#6
SkyWatcher Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Illinois Posts: 100	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. I had to laugh when I read this thread. My hubby has been through quite a bit recently, really stretching his belief system (he is a Catholic in remission) who leans towards Buddism. When we finally figured out that our daughter (his little princess) is a Crystal child and is psychic. She can read her daddy's mind in a hot second. She has been telling him of the things she sees, like ghosts, fairies, etc. I laugh, because he knows that I am clairaudient, so is our son (Indigo). So when I read this thread, it made me chuckle. Been down that road, and am still walking it daily. Remember, "The proof is in the pudding." When something goes down, and you know you have read it on this form, you can refer back to that thread to validate yourself. He'll catch on. (by the way, we just celebrated our 19th Anniv. on the 9th of Sept., together 21 years. My love and light to you. Nancy

09-12-2008, 02:55 PM	#7
Theresa Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 174	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. I aplogize that this opinion won't be very helpful in terms of "keeping the peace", most likely, but I will say this. I have found that I really have to be with someone who is willing to expand vibrationally to be in a healthy space. That being said, if they are willing to allow me to be MYSELF, and explore the world the way I have to to keep growing, then I can work with them too, wherever they are. But if they start dictating to me the boundaries I'm "allowed" to live under, so that they don't feel threatened, well, that's always the beginning of the end for me in relationship. I can hear you about this and it brings me back about 15 years. Needless to say, that relationship didn't last. I know most people have way more tolerance than me, though.

09-12-2008, 05:11 PM	#8
NorCal Avenger Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. That's too bad about what he said. if you get a chance to speak civilly, I would say that Project Avalon doesn't control how you think, but it is a reminder that there is much more going on in the world than most people realize. you can give credibility to this movement by reminding people that Economists have been predicting the collapse of Freddie Mac and Fannie Mae for more than 5 years, long before this so called "subprime mortgage crisis" ... "snuck up on us." there's a lot like this, just tell him to google something he's interested in and read about it. for instance; there is actually no oil shortage in the us, because the US has two of the largest oil deposits in the world available in the rockies and the Dakotas (I think about $4.3trillion to $43trillion estimated value). The oil crisis has been manufactured in order to raise oil prices, among other things. good luck.

09-12-2008, 11:36 PM	#9
Kate Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: currently UK, searching for a safe relocation in next year Posts: 319	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. Hi Tuza, Patti and Norvel are right! It is indeed a long time you have been together....and hopefully u will continue to be.. My advice ( for what its worth) is to just keep your convictions clear...continue to do whatever u can/need to for the preparation of 'something' which we are all anticipating!! Your not alone hun!! there will be millions of us out there trying to juggle our own 'knowledge' with the surreal 'matrix' most people consider to be 'real'..and it is HARD at times...it is confusing, isolating and frustrating!! but you now have a place to share and identify, and you will get support! trust your instinct and carry on relardless!! lol your partner is entitled to opinions..but you have done the research and he probably hasnt! follow your heart and let the love flow regardless of 'blocks' peace to you now and always! fire

09-13-2008, 02:05 AM	#10
QUESTINY Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Nebraska Posts: 407	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. It is easier for our spouses to reject such things. It is a lonely road to find truth and wisdom. When you are spiritually and physically preparing just make a place for him. You will need to be the leader when things get tough and you will have the answers to move him in the right direction. He did not prepare. On the same token, the fact that you are here posting shows that you are preparing and growing. We will all grow with you and you will show him your strength in such matters when the time is right. He will need you. His talents and expertise you will rely on and he will learn yours. May your journey be full of excitement.

09-13-2008, 02:23 AM	#11
mntruthseeker Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Minnesota Posts: 2,482	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. Sorry, but I cant seem to stop laughing at your post. I have been with my hubby for 38 yrs and we have been arguing non stop over all of this. He wants to break my lap top. Laughing even harder now. It's all the lap top that my son gave me you know. Oh Dear, be careful. The cops have him convinced Im schizzo. I even got taken to hospital. You know, the best part of all of this, is I feel so wonderful hearing and researching each and every source. I know that this can't be wrong as it feels so right. Too many with same story. Anyhow, I love him when he comes in here very quietly and tells me what just showed up on TV. LOL Tell your hubby to join or let it go. I know YOU will not, you have been kissed. LOL ss I just feel for you. Maybe the two of them can play cards or something. Can you imagine telling them that about sports?

09-13-2008, 02:44 AM	#12
SkyWatcher Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Illinois Posts: 100	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. This may seem like a stupid question, but why only husbands? Are there any women that think that their spouses/partners have bats in their belfry because they have become "enlightened?" Not all people walk to the beat of same drummer.

09-14-2008, 12:17 AM	#15
2012survivor Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Spain Posts: 10	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. I'm in opposite situation. I'm 33 and my down-on-earth accountant girlfriend suggested me to visit the doctor. But as Bob Dean said in his interview with PC: People can't handle the truth. And I learnt not to tell everything I believe about this issue. Actually I focus on economic crack down, and I tell her to remember Argentinian break down. And it's working, as with all of my friends. It's impossible that everything bad fall down at same time, so you can give little doses of information, in ascending order of credibility. You begin with USA-Iran affair, then economic collapse and you finish with andromedans and 4th density. There'll be time for explanations, but later.

09-14-2008, 12:25 AM	#16
Ceara Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Gaspesie, Quebec Posts: 27	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. He's not telling you to stop reading it for your sake, but rather his. He's afraid of what you'll become as a result and will leave him behind.

09-13-2008, 02:37 AM	#18
Kusala Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New England, North America (for now) Posts: 10	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. Hey Tuza, I feel this thread. Change, growth, and transformation are always challenging for partners, spouses, mates. It seems there is an inherent threat for many people when we begin to explore any new pathway. That goes for friends and family as well as I've gleaned from some other post. Questiny said it well...it is a lonely road to find truth and wisdom...perhaps more so when it has been found. Some people in my life are wary of my relentless research, this growing urgency within, which I have to modulate daily. I really only articulate what is coalescing intuitively, in small doses with those that I am closest to. It is a delicate balance that we have to find with our partners, friends, etc. So much is happening so rapidly and as Firehorse said wisely, we still have to engage with the "surreal matrix" that still predominates many people's reality. It's maddening in a sense...and yet, an enigma which we must coexist with and be compassionate around. It's part of our practice. Peace and blessings to you (and your husband).

09-14-2008, 01:27 AM	#22
CosmicFever Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. My Mom asked me today if voices were talking to me. I told her only when I ask their opinion. peace, cosmic

09-15-2008, 06:46 PM	#24
Myra Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: So Cal Coast USA Posts: 340	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. [QUOTE=lock'N'load;] See will he show the same enthusiasm when you tell him to stop watching tv Hahaha THAT would be interesting!

09-14-2008, 01:42 AM	#25
Matt Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Paradise Posts: 14	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. You have the right to choose what you do with your eyes. Be tactful though.