I welcome both positive and negative. for this is how I learn. how would I know good if I didn't experience bad. I find that a great deal of growth can come from the negative. equal to positive. makes a well rounded individual. its how we deal with both sides that is important. I also find that some so called negative attacks are not attacks at all. a lot can be learned from the ego here. just another point of view. I find myself weaving back and forth in this dilemma. but try to stay in the center.