I really do have to laugh, Milk and Honey... having lived perhaps twice as long as you (just guessing) and I have learned the "mirror effect" very well... I came here to share what I KNOW...you came here to share what you BELIEVE
"The faults you find in other are your OWN...you recognize them in the mirrors placed before you...which gives you an opportunity to correct them" paraphrased from ancient Kabbalist teachings.
another ancient tactic, is to kill the messenger when you don't agree with the message
and one final thought...opinions are like a$$-holes, everyone has one and they all stink
