i get what you say orb, negativity feeds negativity so let's keep it to a minimum, i agree ...
yet something keeps nagging my inners about this ...
from what i know, i get that awakening must come through free will, it must derive from seeking our own truth and thus it is up to us individually to know it and then collectively, we move forward ...
once we begin implementing limitations then we are standing in the way of free will, ours for implementing it and theirs for not being permitted to receiving it ...
what i get is that in this time place which is unfolding now is very different than anything we've ever experienced, the biggest difference is core, it is a time when we have to go deeper within ourselves than ever before and locate our truth and thus awaken, our truth must come from our selves first and foremost, kind of like we're scraping the bottom of the barrel to find it ...
we do this by receiving all kinds of information and then discerning what we keep and what goes to get us closer to the barrel's bottom, it is almost vital that WE do our own work, that we have to know what resonates within us and what doesn't and to gain our wisdom by BEing able to say yes to that info and no to the other ...
once we start shaping what others receive then it doesn't allow us the opportunity to say yes or no because that option suddenly isn't available to us which in turn doesn't align us with our truth as quickly ...
do enough shaping as to what people receive, put up enough parameters and soon everything begins looking like fluff ... we can't learn from fluff ...
i don't resonate with negativity at all and yet i have to say negativity is exactly what had pushed me that much harder to allow me the opportunity to find my truth, sat in the bottom of many barrels saying no to it and thus seeking and locating the yes ... the yes being my truth ...
it is a learning process, energies now are facilitating awakening at very rapid speeds which at times, brings out more than of the norm negativity from us and yet, that too is all part in part of that individual's seeking, they are weeding through their own gardens and tossing out the weeds to others which shouldn't be right but how else to weed ... sometimes the weeds have to be received by others and with that the gardener receives back that it wasn't ok for them to do that and in turn they come to know it really isn't their truth and ... lesson complete ...
learning from negativity is one thing but being disrespectful in how it is done is another, as long as it is still respectful, then it is that person's teaching ...
i'm rambling but awakening now really is about digging so deep that at those depths there will usually be some kind of negativity and it will usually surface ... to dissolve, to heal ...
as i wrote, i don't resonate with negativity anymore but there was once a time when i was at the bottom of that stinkin barrel, tossed out some negativity from time to time until i learned (or "learnt"

) that it isn't me ...
the most appropriate place to be with our truth is in a solid one ...
when we're learning the fine art of awakening we sometimes weeble and wobble and at times fall down, but hopefully when we're down temporarily, others will allow us to get up once again ...
we can only get closer to that one day that we don't fall again ...
always rambling