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Originally Posted by eXchanger
what are her/your child's bedtime procedures ?
when she said, the stupid bird did it, to her
did you ask her,
so, can you tell me the story about how the stupid bird did it --
was it good thing/or bad thing ?
and, why do you think the bird, did that ?
and, when & how exactly did it happen ?
and, where where you and this bird,
when it happened ?
you might play into it, you know how mummy loves to read you books, and, how mummy loves to tell you stories,
do you have any good bird stories, to tell mummy,
she needs a story ...
you would be surprised, how little ones,
open up; and; spill a lot of their beans
they understand having their needs meet,
maybe, she will surprise you, and, tell you the story
brightest blessings
susan
the eXchanger
(who has had a lot of interaction with birds,
over the years, esp. when i was small-but, i was
never bitten by them)
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That is something I already do. I always talk alot with my children and help them expres themself. But maybe when she is a bit older she can tell the story better so i can understand it more. She does open up to me ,, I think that is because i have always talked to her alot even when she was a little baby.
I never said that she said she was bitten, that is still unclear how it happend.
The bird comes to her bed and takes her to the sky.
Most of the time it's fun but sometimes she's scared
I tell her that if she doesn't want to go with the bird, just yell"go away"
She goes to other places.....
No other children are there, this week she did mention she went with the bird to see her sister(my 13 year old)
And the bird cleaned her bed, which she didn't like
I did show her some pictures of birds and asked her if she sees a bird which looks like her bird. The eagle got her attention.