Hi Sunflower, Allie...
In my experience it is of the utmost importance to get our ability to feel really well up to par with our capacity to use our brain and logical reasoning.
"I think so I am" should be on the same level with: " I feel so I am".
This medium, the internet, this forum, is all about using words and thinking and reasoning and arguments.
There are ways to communicate feelings and these ways will be available to us when we learn to use out feeling capacity fully.imho.