Joseph,
Welcome to the winning side!
That is a quote by the way, from "Handbook for the New Paradigm" - an odd little book that has a lot to do with why this forum exists. It is not the kind of book you asked about. It is more of a catalyst to wake people up and get them to start looking at the world around them in a new way, as you have been doing.
I don't have a book or movie to recommend. Just keep in mind that a few words or sentences made to the right person at the right time can make a huge difference. A gentle loving nudge is better than a sledge hammer.