To really feel loved you have to integrate with your HIgher Self and Soul. That love we crave and seek in others never gets fullfilled because who can love us without condition?
Even if you find a guru and feel loved unconditionally by him/her it wont last, the only true love comes from within.
It is not only about loving yourself unconditionally as you are but accepting that you are loved 24/7 by your soul, your higher self and your spirit and of course all that is.
I myself teach others how to reconect themselves with their multidimensional beings but I am in England. I am sure there are many teachers in your area that can help you reconect with your higher self.
Once you are reconected you never feel alone or unloved anymore.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ILJNAWzuRkI
Much love