uummm....both.
how can you truly know the light if you have never known the dark?
or to quote beavis and butthead
'why cant everything be cool?'
'well, if everything was cool, how would we know what sucked?'
if you read something on here that 'scares' you, harden the f#*k up. sticking your head in the sand and thinking about pretty colours will not save you. build a bridge and get over it. yes, good intentions will help, but you just might have to get off your a*s and DO SOMETHING. n*m*ste-ing will not help you. do yourselves a favour and stop bowing before.......
apologies for the rant. space pope helps those who help themselves...