Norman,
Well I do indeed agree its not as if any of us could just go an run a nuclear power plant because we have love in our heart ! One must only approach the things which resonate with us. There are different planes of experience, existance and reality in the same appartment complex or family or society and not everything is everyones business if you excuse the blatent use of the word. Well said and welcome to the gentle, thus far thread.
For the Datre site it was and the skeleton remains
http://www.mindspring.com/~datrenet/
They gave me most of the material for free and were always in touch despite my novice, at the time, questions. I would gladly sent the material out if I knew they were gone and wanted it deseminated as it is I don't feel it I can with copyright etc... or at least I don't know. Their books are available at Booksurge. Thanks for all your lovely words and peace be with you all.