Aloha Rama!
I have a very good friend who's also recovering. She moved to Hawaii and LOVES it!! she says she will never leave!
I think for everyone it's a different experience. What I learned in 12 step is Live and Let live.
It works for some, maybe another type of program works for others.
Keeping an open mind and tolerance is what's key for me. I gotta practice practice practice and let go.
Love to you all!