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AndrejPechonkin · 10-19-2008, 10:48 AM

Dear Tuza,

There is always room for finding a solution. What really matters is to be aware of your own system of values and your goals. If your husband does not seem to fully share YOUR values, there are in principle two opposing reactions on your behalf: 1) to try and make him understand your values, then (if he chooses) try accepting them - thus you LIFT/RAISE him to YOUR LEVEL - so that you both are TOGETHER on this level of consciousness; 2) to let him DECIDE ON HIS OWN whether he is ready to share your values. This option may be very sour as it may lead to separation.

In any case, it's always worth trying the first option. And unconditoinal love is the answer.

Andrej

10-19-2008, 10:48 AM	#75
AndrejPechonkin Avalon Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Moscow Posts: 2	Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff. Dear Tuza, There is always room for finding a solution. What really matters is to be aware of your own system of values and your goals. If your husband does not seem to fully share YOUR values, there are in principle two opposing reactions on your behalf: 1) to try and make him understand your values, then (if he chooses) try accepting them - thus you LIFT/RAISE him to YOUR LEVEL - so that you both are TOGETHER on this level of consciousness; 2) to let him DECIDE ON HIS OWN whether he is ready to share your values. This option may be very sour as it may lead to separation. In any case, it's always worth trying the first option. And unconditoinal love is the answer. Andrej