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Originally Posted by ctophil
This is not only an invasion of privacy but also control. Excuse me, why is this not my concern? I am her husband, and we must both be concerned about it. If you have any obedience for the Bible and the 10 commandments, than you ARE NOT allowed to see any other man's wife naked. It is an abomination and a form of adultery! And I agree! This is not a feminist agenda (although this agenda is another means of controlling and manipulating anger & hatred against each other, like the white/black thing) where she is the only one making a decision. Are you even married? If so, then you should know what I'm talking about.
-Phillip
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Phillip, the way we see is mostly decided by the way we are raised and all the input that we got, it is not the way that we can truely see.
How i look at things is hard to explain since everything has a meaning in such a way that you wil perceive it only in that way that you have been "programmed" to.
I am going to be unified/bonded/married soon, we are together a long time already, and yes i know how you feel, but i also know, for me that is not a real feeling, it is a human made programmed feeling.
Even if we would see someone naked, in fact we on this point never see that someone really naked. We must learn to see beyond flesh and materials.
Also in a bond of agreement like a mariage you will still be individuals off equal hights, every man and woman must make their own choises in life how foolish they might seem to one another, otherwise one can never learn.
All Humans have the capabillity to eventually develope a sence of their own, they will learn by themselves and be greater beings at some point.
The 10 rules might not be how you "see" them, it is all in ones perception really.
A word is also an image, but yet you write read and speak a name.
And sometimes we MUST make mistakes, and then know how Foolish we were to do such a thing.
Anyway, i would love a talk about our views, but we should continue this in PM or on the spiritual posts, since we would be going off topic.
Do not be angry, and please do not feel attacked, it is not my intention.