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Originally Posted by Jenny
Projection..is a weird thing.
helping others is a very good therapy for one's own probems.
I do not condem that ..........MARK MY WORDS! NB.
In my experience and opinion the one seeing a problem, feeling a problem and wanting to help others with likewise problems...MAY be helping him/herself in the first place and in the meantime help others.
It is a two way therapy.
Jenny
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I choose to help people because i know the value of being helped myself.
Of course, i have my own problems. Lots of them. But their not spiritual problems, just physical ailments.
But when i help someone else i do it for them. I do it so that when my time comes to depart this world i can look back on my life with pride that i made a difference from someones life. And i just LOVE to make people smile, its like a drug to me and i cannot explain it to someone who is not wired this way. Feels like trying to explain color to a blind man.
When i was a young child before i had lost my innocence and the spiritual essence i carried into this world i often went into the chemist with my mum. Every time i would go in the chemist would always offer me a lollypop. I would tell him "only if you give me on for my brother too" .. It wasnt long before i found out my brother done this also, except he kept the extra lollypop for himself. Yet, even though i knew this i would always keep getting him one regardless.
Why? I dont know, i get pleasure from seeing people smile.
And just because i have confidence and see myself for who i really am does not mean i am elitist. I dont feel superior to anyone. I do however feel that everyone would benifit from feeling this way, which is why i do what i do.