ladyluck.
I think the most important thing is to try to keep a level head and stay as balanced as you can. Listen to what others have to say and don't dismiss anything out of hand.
What Bill Deagle picked up was obviously important to him, as important as your dream was to you and he was concerned enough to share it just as you have. But it was
just a dream - albeit an important one.
For me this site is about collecting information and sharing love and strength. My advice is listen to others, listen your heart but don't ignore your head - reality is probably somewhere in-between!