[whitecrow]

Originally Posted by ChooseYourLifeNow

I don't want a person to poison my radiant zone....How do I handle this situation. She does not bring out the best in me, and if I had the choice I would let her fend for herself, but I can't do that....ARG....help!

Until recently I had a co-worker whose energy was extremely dark. The entire workforce was affected by this one individual. No matter how I tried to understand and befriend this person, it was virtually impossible. I've given a lot of thought to this encounter. Was it my failure to connect, or was it his failure to grasp the light? He was eventually caught stealing and fired.

A negative person can be a huge challenge. Be glad it's not your spouse (been there, got the T-shirt). I believe we can benefit from these relationships. They cause us to at least consider new ways of approaching others. In my co-worker's case, my best solution was ultimately to simply avoid him. He continually lied and backstabbed, but what was worse was that he made me angry...he pushed my buttons. On one or two occasions I felt I had to confront him, and you may have to do the same with the problem person in your life. I feel for you in this situation, and can only suggest that you do your best to not let it get to you.