[Frank Samuel]

Whatever you wish for that person will come back to you 3x fold. You are looking at yourself in the mirror. Do not judge, visualize what you want the person to think about or feel. You can control her conciousness at least as she relates to you, only if you care enough for that person to try to emphatize with her. In other words why does she feels the way she feels, walk a mile in her shoes. In life at least from my experience from a soldiers viewpoint often your enemies once you drop your guard and are able to forgive, love and embrace will become the best of friends. Look at the things that you share in common. Watch the UFC these guys beat each other to a pulp yet at the end of the fight embrace and hug each other, that believe me is genuine. Vietnam vets visiting Vietnam and embracing the enemy 30 to 40 yrs after the event. Forgive, love and embrace