Thank you Steven, i can see u are a very sincere person, i didnt expect that to be honest
Most people are EGO driven when asked for help because on a subconscious level, they are empowered by the other persons NEED for them, and feel that they are above(or worth more) the person who asks for their help, because it gives them a sense of control over the person asking for help, they can help or not. I hope u know what i mean Eng. is not one of my strong languages
You, on the other hand, said just enough to "spark" my curiosity into finding the awnsers for my self and from(within) myself. No outer teacher/guide/guru needed, and as my rolemodel once said "Already know you, that what u need."