I feel I must reply to Relin's post.
Please will you word your answers as though we ARE all listening Relin, in a World of defensiveness do you think it would be a good idea to drop the aggressive expression; on a forum where so many people drop by to offer their two pennarth, we need to be a tad softer in our approach.
The more the more law, I believe is applied, you being nice means i can be nice, means you can be nice back.
After all we are not on a battlefield, this is an ideas, and coming together field, with helpful and kindly advice offered for whatever is ahead of us, which we can take or not as the case may be.
Therefore whatever issues we all have on a personal level can be shunted to the sideline so we can ALL have a good open-handed meeting, expressing our thoughts and feelings without weapons drawn. Do we not get to know one another better that way.
everyone