[Fredkc]

I keep trying to come up with something nice, hopefull, encouraging to post. I really do look hard for things to say that will get people to stop and think...

Meanwhile more s h i t gets tossed over the wall, and I re-group again.

B & K;
You have built a wonderful thing here. Whether you can see the value in it, through your arguments, being hurt, etc, or not, it has, and will continue to have lasting value for you both.

What you type here is going viral on forums, and blogs worldwide, and even if all you manage is to destroy this place, is it worth being remembered as the one who accomplished that?

I learned (the hard way) that the surest way to lose two friends, is to get involved in their "marital/business disputes". But I have to say that, whatever fight goes on behind closed doors, never gets settled by taking it to the front yard, then the street.

I can tell you from talking to people here that, many good people are trying very hard to keep out of it, hoping you will settle your differences and move on (or at least leave them alone in public), so we can too.

Use the energy to build something better. So many here want to help.

Fred