having been on the internet a very long time,
back, when it was a simple modem, and, a telephone line,
and, a chat relay ...we have communicated, with quite a few people,
over the years, however, most of them send pictures,
that are decades earlier, than current NOW time,
and, there are even some, who send pictures,
they likely would NOT want their mother
to know they are sending
most of these dating sites,
men have their hands into so many different cookie jars,
that, personally, we think, many of them become addicted,
to so much attention, from so many different directions,
and, they become, almost professionals at 'ad writing'
and, 'have canned responses'
and/or, they play their responses
as, a mirror off your response
and, in fact - they are NOT anything remotely like they appear in writing
there are some people, on some of these dating sites,
who have been utilising the same pictures,
for the past 10+ years
we'd rather meet a person
in person, that way, you see, eXactly,
what you might be in store, to get ~
my advise to anyone utilising the internet to find a date
is get them to come online, utilising a web cam
(right away)
and, watch for the 'mirrored back-canned responses'
without any of their own creative input
if it sounds to good to be true, it likely is
and, if they send you pictures, they'd NOT send their mother
you should cease communications, with them, immediately ...
as, it is very likely they've sent the same pictures to 101 other woman
and, believe me, those type of guys are NOT worth
giving them an oz. of your energy