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Originally Posted by yellowcosmicseed
I am asking for spiritual advice which is better then secular psychology
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I know its not the best thing to say (and I'm pretty sure someone has said this to you before), but, first of all know that you are not alone by any measure. There are millions of people in the world with similar problems and they all have to deal with those issues too. So, please at least take comfort in that.
Matter of fact the majority of the world probably suffer the same severity albeit maybe just a different set of problems. Some people have it bad financially, others with their oppressive governments, and then there are others who fall into the category of victims of countless things.
You don't have to look for a spiritual solution (or psychological for that matter), you just need to find a reasonable resolution for your paradox, something that makes you forgive but not necessarily forget. I suggest this is the best time for you to be as close to your loved ones as possible, always be with family or whoever is closest to you, the people you know you can count-on no matter what.
Hope this helps friend, and welcome to Avalon.