I havent' read but about the first 3 pages of this thread, and this kind of perked up my ears...
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also, you could maybe figure out, who you have been, in a past life
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I did that before I decided to
can my first husband... and came up with 4 past lives (dealing directly with him- 1 male/3 female) that showed me my tendancy to sabotge my life lesson in order to "take care of him"... so I set about to fix that - and he didnt like it very much... so I let him go on his merry way (without me)...
and I did the dating-boards a couple of times over the years, and vowed never to do the "DESPERATE searching thing" again... what with so many men looking at only the outside packaging and cop-ping to the expectation of the "accepted social roles" ...
but since I figured out my lifetime PLAN (for this time around), I am more aware of what it is I want (and don't want), what it is I am supposed to be doing, and I am more satisfied with myself / being by myself - working on me- so i really dont
need anyone to complete my life (myself), but with the kids grown and almost gone... I am finding that I
would like to have some companionship (a real partner-ing of like minds)... just to share life, discovery of new mysteries, and a general "you're-not-the-only-one-on-this-earth" feeling with... so - I'll go for it- one more time...
I believe that sex is a bonus developed from a true selfless caring for the other person... so as a result I am not interested in starting from that angle
I enjoy growing and stretching myself to ever-new higher-life vibrational energies... my key watchwords are = spiritual growth, supportive mindset, self acceptance, joy in sharing, tactful in critiques, caring humor, and a love of actively doing life...
Bodies are just containers for the soul (which are neither male or female- i think)... so I am not hung up (anymore) on age, gender, social roles, etc.
so ...if the shoe fits...