There is nothing better for a man to feel his woman`s warm hands on his body while gently massaging him and without going into sex afterwards.
Same thing reverse.
We often are banalized to the core and we miss a lot because of that.
It`s true art to be above physicality and yet to enjoy it in right time.
Also when it reaches the point when you can feel the love in the air during the process and without desire to move or do anything sexually ,then you enter into different dimension where many fear to thread.