There's some confusion as to whether I'm a woman or not.. so I'll post here if I may.
I thought Redtailhawks comment enlightening. They have to want to at least understand your perspective.
I think it's a base rule of unconditional love for someone that you care about them and want to understand who they are and support who that is. (one day we'll feel this way about
everyone but until then, we hope that our beloved at least will feel this way about us.) For better or worse.
But then you have karma...and life being a learning experience. So if you're not in that lovey-dovey situation, then it's a case of working out your life's learning in the relationship you're in (Remember, anything we accuse another of is a latent 'fault' of our own. That's a real b***ch that idea
) - or of leaving. But leaving without resolution ultimately suggests you'll just walk into the same situation again in another guise.
To take her side for a moment, and my own feelings about what I learned in the last 8 years or so - We don't
really know that ANY of it is true. Do we? And even if it was, a quantum functioning universe could change that all on a pin...to have never been true.
I'd be the first one to say that your relationship with yourself and your wife is FAR more important to this world (and to me for that matter), than any FEMA-illuminati-alien-reptile-underground-base agenda.
Armageddon will happen or it won't. (Armageddon used to the idea
)
We can't possibly follow all the ins and outs 24/7, so she's right to be concerned if it's taking over your life.
I really hope you find some answers to your relationship. Relationship is where it's all headed. There are some great people here. I feel the love enfolding you already.
Best wishes
K