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Originally Posted by Roemer
My son is diagnosed with PDD-NOS.
He's a very nice kid and he is doing great at school, he is as smart as the rest in his class,even abit above regular. But; he has a problem with other kids because he does not understand everything about socializing. He can be very stubbern and thinks that no one understands him. But when he is at home with my ex-wife there is, with 3 other kids in the house, not a real problem. When he is with me, there is no problem at all. Only at school. Because of his disorder he is behind emotially 2 years. So he cant keep up with everyone. A psychiatrist, we consulted, thinks thats the problem. I agree with that. A school where they are specialized in PDD-NOS and ADHD, he thinks ,will improve a lot of the situation. My ex wife, thinks he is better of surrounded by "normal" kids and dont want all the hassel because he has to go to a school 40 miles from home instead of two blocks away. But because of the problems with[Tristan is his name] my son, school wont keep him there unless he takes medication like ritalin or strattera. Look it up! everything you find about this is BAD NEWS. She still think this is the easiest way to solve the problem and really thinks a few pills a day will make him the ideal child he should be, even i mailed her all the information about this ****. She is not aware. She believes mainstream opinion is good and i am slightly crazy. Tried everything to get it out of her head without any results. I dont want my kid on drugs like ritalin because it is:AMFITAMINES YOU KNOW WE CALLED IT SPEED, when i was young[hmm they still do i think]. How in heavens name can that **** for a psychic healthy human being, lead you into the biggest social, health and finacial probems(you will die from it doctors say) but for my ten year old son, with a lot of social problems ,it will be the solution?
Because he is living with his mom she got the power to do this without my permission. And i think she makes THE BIGGEST MISTAKE IN THE WORLD!!!
It keeps me awake at night and i try to figger out how i could stop this, but the answers i come up with are not done because it will make things worse for Tristan. I dont know how to handle this. Thats why i wrote this here and hope to get usefull information, from people who know more than i do, about this situation.
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no way man kids and drugs thats insane especially these days theres so much garbedge out there its unbelivable, you have consider a huge factor that even lets say what ever trials were successfull and the outcome was good for what ever number of participants, lab rats, cats, snakes or what ever, that the human body varies and due to the variations not only the anatomical, the psychic, the mental, social, individual and many others the outcomes could have serious issues, its disgusting theres so many commercials about cancer causing perscription drugs even one i took for several weeks when i had anxiety, so you defentaly should consult a therapist and work with them closelly, ill tell you from personal experience what ever issues your son has they can be delt with without perscription, diet i know from experience is a major thing, not only healthy but unhealthy diet as well, i cant tell you exactly what to do but you shouldn't even come close to meds, the best way is the natural way, u know honestly its so stupid to perscribe meds to people because the truth is one medication can be perscribed for like 20 different ailments or more i took a short peek at some of the meds i was perscribed once and i found out even though they were used to treat anxiety they were used to about a dozen other illnesses on top of that had so many issues that i was **** scarred but was desperate, im not a doctor but to me that sounds like a big blunder, what ever you choose drugs should be the last choice especially at a young age, and u should ask ur son ur self, i bet u can find out exactly what the issue is if u just ask, if u sit down and have a conversation with him to find out why he has problems if he feels there are any, and i belive it should be exactly that a mutual decision urs and his and well ur wifes, i also started reading a book recently called from else where by scott mandelker hes a psychiatrist with a phd who conducted a study about reincarnates who come here to help earth and humanity grow and elevate spiritually, combined with what i learned about indigo children which is supposebly that the younger the children are today that the higher percentage of them are the reincarnted beings who do have difficulty adjusting as a result of their spiritual differentiation which causes confusion, so there could be a lot more here then what meets the human eye, or the majority of the eyes, and there must bea reason your son is acting this way, maybe he knows something the teachers and the kids dont and is sort of incompatable, either from his or their persepctive but there could be nothing wrong with him, and if its the enviourment then think about it, does he really have a problem?, or is the problem the inviorment? or his persepctive of it, which by the way can be altered, or rather say learnd by him as something to be comfortable with, but talk to him, invest time and ask as much as u can with him to learn, keep a complete open mind and i guartenee you youll learn a ton from him
good luck brotha if u have questions feel free to ask
also one added note the medications i was given and i tested several untill i was comfortable with one, well the first several were major blunders, low hiigh blood pressure, massive confusion, and jees i cant describe it but just even more chaos and did more harm then good, and the one i settled for which did help me was awful but i needed it bad i had major anxiety problems, but either way the meds totally screwed me even the one i used to heal me, turned me into a zombie and oh god just did all kinds of nasty **** to my body, and i dont think a child of a young age can diagnose their own problems so they may not even say anything if the medications are problematic for them, either way dont let ur kid become a guinna pig, and you should defenatly get involved with ur wife on this