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Old 09-21-2008, 12:30 AM   #10
QUESTINY
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Default Re: Fighting with your Spouse

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Originally Posted by Mizar View Post
Another nice post Questiny.
Could be months before Mrs. Mizar and I need this, however I will remember and give it a go.
IMO there is nothing more useless and self destructive than fighting with your spouse, in reality, you are fighting with yourself, that is why you can never win, and even if you think you do, it's a Pyrrhic victory.
Glad you asked, 26 years already
I rarely fight with my spouse. I have a general rule. Woman like to be the center of the man's Universe. Everything her man does must revolve around that woman. All decisions. He must always have her in mind.

A man wants to be the biggest brightest star in a woman's Universe. The best, no other star can compare to it. For me, I keep this fundamental rule in mind when dealing with my spouse and in return the spouse returns the sentiment. These are two very different views on a relationship but if it is understood, their is harmony in our lives. This is what works for me.
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