Well, I answered the question in that I want to leave when it's time to move on...
If it's not instant, if death is not a result of an accident or a shot to the head.... i.e. If I'm at the end of this experience, I want someone with me whom I love and has developed techniques suggested by folks like william bloom.
http://www.williambloom.com/pages.php?id=15
on another note...
...a friend of mine ( intuitive ) went with a group of ghost hunters to an abandoned nursing home. One's spirit/soul? followed her as demonstrated by a fragrance, my friend invited her to come home with her, and she did!
The fragrance became apparent to her within her own home, so she must have accepted her invitation eh?
Then she opened the door to her sunlit spare bedroom and invited her spirit to go to the light. And the fragrance lifted.
Believe it, Or not.
:0)
This is pretty much how I work with disembodied spirits.
'I burned my cinnimon rolls while writing this'. Ugh!
Kind Regards,