Re: understanding death
my mother died Feb. 1st 2002 of complications from emphysema.
She was diagnosed at 55 and died at 59. In those 4 years, we talk alot about death...and life. We shared more in those 4 years then we did in the 33 years before her death...
The night she died, my sister and i were by her side...as she quietly took her last breath...that singular moment, those first few seconds of silence...reminded me of the first few seconds before my babies took their first breath...
So...
my mothers last breath...and my childrens first...created the same feeling, the same...pause...
It is a gift i cherish...and was honored to be there and witness her last breath.
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