I suggest reading some of the messages from people who have had NDE's (near death experiences) when you are feeling confused about your life. These people were instructed to return with a message for all of us from the beyond, and it is very enlightening.
http://www.near-death.com/
This site does a very nice job at getting their message out, and their research conclusions by topics are awesome (upper left corner of page). It is amazing that thousands of people who cross over come back with similar experiences, and some are shown things that we need to know, especially in these strange times.
Love to all