Hi WarriorServant,
Yes, once again you are right.
The object is not to be excessively closed off, but also not to be too open. The happy medium makes us want to ask questions and investigate to get to the root of the information. Wouldn't you agree? After all, questions are never offensive.
I tend to think, in general, that the people on this forum are at this happy medium, so prepare for the questions!
The 'N' word is indeed Nong.
Steve