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Old 11-22-2009, 03:35 PM   #3
Stargazer1965
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Midwest
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Default Re: To our children's Children

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Originally Posted by AscendingStarseed View Post
The depth of your soul is absolutely beautiful Stargazer! Any child would be lucky to have you as a parent....my parents were sooo self centered and wrapped up in their own dysfunctional world to pay much attention to our development. Your daughter is a very fortunate girl!
Thanks StarSeed...
I fight with the same....MY parents were horrible and abusive...Victims and Monsters

My wife's parents the same.

I try to shake her awake and ask her "Did you learn nothing on how you were treated???"

Nothing

My wife secludes herself away...Filled with anger and resentment she can not even acknowledge exists.

My daughter spends 90% of her day with me.

My wife can't emotionally attach to anyone so she just does her best to seclude and ignore.

She had an Near Death Experience when she was 6 ...floating above her body..the whole 9 yards

She was told she would never have children...she has 3

They aren't gifts to her...even though they are a miracle.

Maybe someday.....Peace
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