It's seems to be the "mentality" in Victim Mentality that gets people huffing and puffing. We should use our best discernment when in the company of misery. There's a big difference between a person who makes a career out of crying and a person just lost their home and family in an earthquake, fire or tsunami.
I thought people who got cancer did so because they did something not as healthy as those who didn't have it.... like there was something wrong with them.
Then I got it. I don't see myself as a victim, but I learned a hard lesson about what it's like to walk in another's shoes. I went through treatment at a time I was around a lot of very rich, arrogant people (through a marraige) and got my *** kicked for not being perfect.
Here's a video that was shot, in some parts, near my old apartment.
YouTube - Martika - Toy Soldiers
Paul