Very good point Bill!
Fighting and arguing are the things we need to avoid.
If you try to settle things using these, it's like shooting yourself in the foot.
A few years ago, as I began to "awaken", my wife at the time was totally against every topic I was looking into, because it scared her!
I taught myself Remote Viewing, dowsing and Reiki.
At first she thought it was "cool" that I could read her mind, or tell exactly where she was when she called from her cell phone.
Things changed when I was able to get rid of our Pastor's head ache! Within about six month, I had beed banished from the church and my wife was telling me that she wanted a divorce.
A week after I moved out of the house, I found out that my wife's boss had moved in, with her being 30, and the boss being 69. Shortly after this, I was laid off, due to a lack of incoming work. (Automotive-related.)
Thus began my Dark Night of The Soul; I lost my wife, my home, my job and now I see my two sons only one day a week.
Going through this, I have learned to stay centered; No matter what the circumstance, I still find joy!
I "see" my ex-wife's husband dying from a heart-atack in the up-coming year.
I plan on sticking around to teach her a few things, as everything comes down. My motives are not because of "I told you so", but because I figure if it weren't for the divorce, I would not have learned what I have.