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Originally Posted by krystal
As I understand it we are all entitled to our views... it's about Freedom isn't it? So why is someone always trying to stop others from expressing their views on this site and trying to always be niiiiiice! It's not about being nice it's about letting each person express their truth.
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Thank you for expressing that thought Krystal.
You're correct, its not about being nice
I was not discouraging her from expressing her truth. I'm just not certain that the tone of bemoanment that she was striking was adding anything productive to the dicourse...nice or mean...not really moving any direction.
Its important that when we express our own personal truths we don't stray too far into self-indulgence as it can become a drudge to others.
Then again, some individuals, when expressing their personal truths, don't really care whether its becoming a drudge to others. They are not really concerned about that. They are too busy expressing themselves.
Then there are another group of individuals, who don't absolve themselves of being considerate, just because they are on an internet forum. They still worry about those sorts of things.
Not about being nice...or mean. Just objective, basic manners.