Ugh.... I liked both answers and think they contribute to understanding and give one some things to think about. I agree with your first post Burgundia. We are all growing, and getting to know one another and our styles. We are real people sharing our hearts here, and for the most part if we think of sitting at a table sharing a cup of coffee, tea, or a beverage of choice
some of us might not get so snarky.
I can tell everyone here openly that I never intend to offend and I will not react in a spiteful manner unless I have fallen down into some mudpit of scorpio nastiness which I am not known for, but I won't say is impossible to happen. I have always strived to take the high road in forums despite less than congenial treatment by some.
I am sincerely enjoying getting to know each of you and wish more of the lurkers would share their thoughts and feelings even if they don't see themselves as a researcher or whatever they think they need to be to be active here. Everyone has something to share, and I love meeting new people.
Hugs,
Unified Serenity