Humble i lost my mum to cancer and many relations with the self same thing, whilst i feel for those who mourn around us in death and ponder as an after thought "Oh i wished i said this or that to that person" I never got to say what i wonderful mum mine was although hard times through her lifetime brought upon hard decisions i understand that now.
Life deals a hand of ups and downs and yes i really feel that when we die we can move on, i'm certainly pushing for that one, made my mind up i'm not coming back even if they wipe my memory i'm setting a safety feature so it won't happen again ha ha!
Getting back to the reason of this thread, lets tell those around us now how much we love them everyday and not wait til it's too late!
We are a long time dead as they say celebrate the time you have with your loved ones and friends and tell them just how you feel.
You may get a few strange looks but what the hell go on do it now!