Talking about 'getting it' or relating to that, I find it a bit frustrating at times to find the words to convey meaning!!

Just writing over a forum like this is thwart with the difficulty of not being understood. Members at times take posts as attacks when they are not, they are just a different way of perceiving. I think that some people need to display a greater level of tolerance to apprieciate the limitations of writing and also tolerance to other peoples point of view.
After all: If we want truth, every
man ought to be free
to say what he
thinks without fear.
If one side is to be --
rewarded, and the
other punished,
truth will not be
heard.
Erasmus van Rotterdam