[BROOK]

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Originally Posted by BROOK

You had a wonderful experience growing up in a big family.However I can tell you what kind of people have big families in Poland.
Alcoholics, people with mental and psychological problems,simpletons, people from disfunctional families and the like. there was a program about a family with, i believe, 11 children. Parents were nor able to provide proper upbringing, 6 of the children were in an institution, 2 had problems with the law,etc. some of the children were mentally disturbed.
I used to have neighbours with several children. Parents were not normal, the children were like parents. Two sons ended up in jail, one daughter was a cheap whore who had children with her clients( the children were slightly abnormal too). And that everlasting stench from their flat....It was a punishment for all other families when they moved in...
of course there are exceptions to the rule, but the rule is a rule.

That is the fault of Society...that is what needs to be changed for us progress to another level of being...that has nothing to do with controlling to population.
Hopefully we are on the dawn of a new face for mankind to wear...but population control is strictly not the answer...the answer is compassion...love...education. My opinion only..but I've seen many large families busting with love for each other...and the values they learn are tremendous...they learn sharing, caring...community.
That is the lesson we all need to learn. I believe that day is dawning..more of us are waking up to the value of life itself...treasure it.
It is society, and the values of the big media, and government that have been controlling for centuries that have caused the burden of the large family.It is the government and cia that have been pushing their drugs and booze on society to the burden of the underdog to fall down and create the problems that they are thriving on today.
It is not about the large family, but the makings of society that needs to change