Sure I love everyone at the highest level where we are all one.. but if I am in the middle of a chess or soccer game then I may do my best to win the game and maybe even put a drop or two of some hatred and anger to make things more spicy
.. (since this 3d planet is also a game, albeit on a bit higher level than playing chess, I tend to use the same game principles)... the tricky part is the game rules change for every situation and every individual.. so it is never the same.