Leaders don't work for me, I've been self employed for exactly that reason.
My Dad has a saying.
"Ask me always, tell me never." That's how I feel as well.
Happy to help out all day long, but try telling me to do something and you've got no chance

I travelled the world and most of that I've done alone, happy to tag along for a while with different people but there comes a day when I head off in another direction.
I've seen some programs on tele of those communes with a leader and his little flock

No thx