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Originally Posted by Swanny
Here is something strange that always happens with me.
I meet a girl we have a relationship might be for a few months or might be years, then we split up and with out fail the next man along is the one they have been waiting for. Marriage/babies etc follow.
It's happened so many times that's it's become a bit of a joke.
I say I am like Sam Beckett from Quantum leap, I leap into someones life sort them out in some way and they are then ready to meet Mr Right.
Bit like always the bridesmaid never the bride 
Oh well not to worry  |
I'm not quite sure if there is any single person who is mr. or mrs. right. Human attraction is based pretty much on a few different factors and is almost always predictable if not entirely a science in itself.
For a woman to be attracted to a man it is not based on his soul it is based on his attitude and the way he conducts himself which can be changed pretty easily with minimal effort.
Woman are inevitably hardwired to be attracted to men who have four characteristics ;
1. Ability to emote - The ability to react emotionally to different scenarios, if he's in a club and someone spills he's drink he gets a pit peeved off. etc.
2. Protector of loved ones - This one speaks for itself.
3. Leader of men - The mans man who is not afraid to voice his opinion and get things done. Has the confidence and charisma to influence other men.
4. Pre-selection by other woman - If she see's you with a couple of woman with your arms around them having fun or any other similar scenario.
Any man with these four qualities is "Mr. Right". There is no deviating from this as it is a natural survival hardwired trait shared by every single human being on this planet.
Human attraction is entirely physiological and psychological in nature. This is a primordial instinct which stems from the times when human beings lived in tribes. And it hasnt changed one bit since then.
If you want to get mrs right you have to be mr right.