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Originally Posted by Sanat
No need to worry about the children. They are connected and most of them are more evolved beings than their parents. They will be teaching you and not the opposite  . Remember that no being comes here at random. There is a timing to everything. No need to give them "ideas" etc. Just be natural and present with them and treat them like the adults they are to become.
That is the worst mistake I see from many parents. From their own infantile needs they treat their children like a child. This is the reason that most "adults" are not really mature inside. Their parents was never really present with them when they grew up. They were never treated and respected as adults. Most are like children hiding behind "adult/serious" masks. And thus they talk in funny "cute" voices to their children also, and do not take them seriously. Respect your "child" like an adult and be present with that person. That is all it takes to be a good parent. And always remember that it is not "your child". It is an independent being at a certain level of evolvement with his/her own "mission" in life. |
You just summed it up mate, those were some very wise words.
