Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff.
Hi, Folks:
This is an interesting and valuable thread.
Kerry and I get a LOT of e-mails from people who have stumbled into conflict with friends and family over the information we present and discuss.
What often helps is to remember/ realize that apparent aggression may actually be a symptom of fear (conscious or unconscious). Your husband/ wife who appears to be uncharacteristically unkind and insensitive may simply be terrified.
The remedy - sometimes - is to understand that they are afraid and to make allowances. Fighting and arguing over the 'facts' usually won't resolve anything.
A hug might - as also might listening to their real concerns.
Very best to all - Bill
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