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oh yes...

i know...

the ONLY peeps i will miss here are my "native' friends...who were by my side through all the bull blah blah...


hmmmmmmmmmm...

yeah...

i do not belong here..my parents came here first..but i KNOW the land..i KNOW the "spirit" of the land..

only thanx to my "native friends"

they are in pain now here..

and i can't help .

it is very sad for us now.

but something will change soon we know...

actually i know..they stay in pain..

lets..

GIVE THEM SOME LOVE NOW!



my brothers and sisters..

from another time..as we got entwined..this time...

I LOVE THEM

AND THEY WERE THE ONLY ONES THAT STAYED LOVING ME

THRU ALL MY HARDSHIPS!

truley my "real" bros...

we have cried many a time in each others arms

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We're all connected in that sense.

I just have learned the hard way that tribal politics are dirty, filthy and rotten.

It's time to cleanse the plate and start anew. I will be sure to do my part there.

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you are much needed!

i have been a part of "that scene" since i was a teenager in this city..

it is a huge task.

many have come "unglued" to the ways of the elders...


please...

i am happy you can change it!

it is TRULEY aweful now!

i have "been there" at the "lowest" times of my brothers and sisters...

i want us to "be free again"

they taught me...

what i forgot..when i got born.

to me..

they are everything.

i love them

profoundly.

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It rises far above petty politics and has more to do with connecting with who you truly are.

Until we rise above the petty bickering, we will never feel as one with the creator.

Progress cannot be made when the past is constantly on the agenda. I have witnessed this since I joined. I have the inspiration and encouragement of my mother to make things right. I have her encouragement to do what I put my mind to.

It's unfortunate that we are still bound by the typical human shortfalls, which include greed, self-centered behavior and an inflated sense of self-worth that has no spiritual basis.

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Yes!!!

Absolutely agreed!!!!

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Well i was in bar last night in asia and this guy walked in with a VERY beautiful girl...unfortunately he didn't realise that the "girl" was what they call here "a lady boy"...so i think he will have had a shock later. Asia don't mind the "cross over" stuff at all ... much more is tolerated than in europe. But maybe the guy knew what he was getting into and thats what he wanted. Who knows? He seemed to be having a good time.

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Ah Piers, there the turtledoves kept going and now you tell that kind of story. How English of you!
Must admit though, saw one of them ladyboys on the tube just now and it does take a little time before I figure it's a man!
Ah well, attraction to the same sex is a sign of abundant love, right?

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I call them Girlie-Men! I got that from the Terminator! Surprise! Surprise!:mfr_omg::lol3:

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Non non! C'est Yaoi!
Thank the Japanese for the present of utmost androgyny!

http://images.google.com/images?um=1...=Search+Images

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Deep Purple -- Perfect Strangers

PURRfect !!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYc4uRo9maQ

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Not bad! But how about Deep Purple -- Strange Kind of Woman?!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCI8s...eature=related Burn is one of my favorites! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfzv3...eature=related. I can almost smell the pot! I owe a lot to Iowa Pot! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmTHCDws1LQ. Just kidding! Or am I? Seriously...I have heard that pot makes people less receptive to tyranny. Is that why it's illegal? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G7KnP3Lnq2M. John Lear tells the story of flying some rockstars in a Lear Jet...with some really good pot. The jet was at 40,000 ft...while they were at 60,000 ft!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hngGD...eature=related
CIA + JET + COKE = http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UQNSoOX-dcw. How's that for a tangential digression into oblivion?

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Hahahaha...you guys are NUTS!! I love it!

I used to hang out with a beautiful 50 year old lesbian in Bangkok once, which is how i can "spot" the lady boys better than most.

Susan, your link didn't work tonight, i'm in Manila today, heading for Dubai this week, but loved your japanese images, C.

Ortho, I have always been into smokey, wild little electric jazz clubs I'm afraid.

Lady boys on the tube...not sure about that. It works in Asia though.

P.

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Nah, he wasn't pretending to be a woman but he was as female as it gets. Believe me I've seen people lose their trousers without wearing underwear on the tube and then kneeling down to heir their crown jewels below the window height.... funniest moment in my life.
But I've never seen such an androgynous Jappo as on the Tube today.

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The most beautiful women are often men......

Eh?

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Girl's howe about a comment on THAT!

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Not always the case.

Plus, women don't have an adam's apple. :naughty:

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I think I would like a wife before I die :huglove:

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You will Swanny. You put your intent out there to find the right woman, she will be magnetized to you. Someone who is equal to you in mind and spirit, not just physical desire.

Cheers

Carmen

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How do you put your intent out there? Do you place ads on dating sites?

Just wondering. I too, would like a wife before I leave this planet.

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:original:

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Guys if all else fails.. :naughty:


http://Luminari.fileave.com/bridefromrussia.jpg

http://Luminari.fileave.com/russian-brides.jpg

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Japan is cheaper...

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The Russian girls are beautiful...and usually very smart...but I prefer bad Czechs...:sneaky2:

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Thx but she's taking her bloody time getting here :naughty:

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Are you sure she is not right under your nose Swanny, someone you know already, and not realized that she is the one. One that you already know as a friend. Its sad to see some of the attitudes on here. Sort of like woman are a commodity, all about tits and ****!! Women have allowed this down-grading of themselves to a certain degree, unfortunely. Its time women of the world said "NO' to the sexual depravity of this world, and established a new standard. A standard of sacred relationship, of sacred sexual connection.

I hesitate to post this because I realize it will draw flak!

This mad world of 3D has emphasized sex through TV programs, Ads. Little girls are encouraged to be sexual from a young age. It is soo sad. Desperate women from poor countries, are selling themselves to the highest bidder, just to survive.

When the Goddess truly arises in woman and men, she will stand tall and proud, and refuse to have anything to do with any man, who only sees her body parts and not her sacredness, her divine feminine.

There!!!

Love

Carmen

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No idea Carmen
If she is I wish she would let me know :original:

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Carmen...thank you for saying this, it needed to be said. I completely agree. It is time men & women moved out of the old paradigm of thinking when it comes to how men view women. Men need to respect their own bodies and their sexuality. Same for women. It is disturbing to see (despite the women's movement) how women are portrayed, & now also men are portrayed as sex objects.:mad3: Dont get me started on the sexualizing of the little children:mad3:

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In my palm there is a very big deep line in the marriage area, so I guess there is someone out there.
I do have a friend who is on holiday at the mo and things were great until we met then we really p*ssed each other off, but we are still friends and are planning on meeting up again.

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Ah, yes Swanny, i sort of thought there was someone there. You a too nicer guy to not have attracted a special someone. Look within, contemplate on the area of"****** off". Its a mirror of some sort. Its the key. Look beyond that and you may find the gift.

Cheers

Carmen

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I may be in danger of sounding condescending, but I think under both sexes sexual postering and bravado, is a deep desire to connect, and be, with the one, the love of their life. And where are the role models in this world, for loving committed relationships? There arent any, not on any of our media. Is been planned that way!!!

I like that Avalon doesn't get overly stroppy with rules. Its better, to me, if behaviour is moderated by members themselves, by others putting forward better alternatives to base attitudes and behaviour. Women need to step up to the base, so to speak, and teach men how they wish to be related to. As Thelma says to Louis, "You Get What Ya Settle For'.:original::original:

Cheers

Carmen

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Ya, show me the women of my generation that can even distinguish between feminist ego flatulence and and respecting the divine female (don't even start me on respecting the male.)
It's just all effed up and seems an upward battle the younger you are. The divorce rates from all the hippies doesn't really speak of role models either.
Sorry to be so pessimistic but we really need something 'new', feminism was infiltrated and corrupted, the hippies didn't hold on to responsibilities and beyond generation X the models are so freaked I doubt it's even discussable.

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M E LIKING WHAT
CARMEN HAS TO SAY :thumb_yello::thumb_yello::thumb_yello:

BIG TIME !!!!:trumpet:.....
IM ONLY INTERESTED IN MR RIGHT
NOW , o! SO MANY COMPROMISES:thumbdown:

love you all eny way :tongue2::tongue2::tongue2:

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I'm very fussy, I want someone who is perfect for me :original:

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Yes, but it works both ways. If you desire the same level of perfection , for her also, you will have a match. Actually, the word perfect to me denotes something static, finished, no more growth. Its is in the difference that the spark is created.

Cheers

Carmen

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:mfr_lol: Thats funny.
You know Swanny, the 'one' might end up being someone you never would have thought of in a million years.

Take me for example, there was a girl I knew when we were at school. I hated her ... with a passion!! Thats embarassing to say. :sweatdrop: She however, knew I was her one.

Now, a number of years down the line, we have been together for 5 years and are now engaged. She is completely, 100% the other half of me. No question!

How do I know - she accepts me fully and I her. Absolutely everything - the good the bad and the ugly as they say :lol3:

Anyways .. my point is - dont rule someone out that may already be in your life or that may come into your life in the near future just because they dont meet your initial expectation of perfection. :thumb_yello:


Peace
Iain

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The important thing in finding YOUR ideal mate (note that it is ideal only for you, not in some absolutist terms) goes through several steps:

1) First you must realize what are your deeper needs regarding this issue, on how many levels you need to connect
2) Generally the connection can be made on the 7 main levels (according to the chakras) and it depends how much of those levels you have opened in yourself
3) After you realize which of the levels you feel should be connected to your mate and you realize the depth you desire for those levels be connected you can have a pretty good idea of how that mate would make you feel
4) All this should give you a good basis on which to judge if a certain person feels really right and its not just some emotional infatuation or karmic attraction

As you move along the world you see most relationships are based on 1st and 2nd chakra energy (meaning money and survival .. and sex). As you go upwards to 3rd and emotions you can still find some people. Rarely we have connection going up to 4th (love) and even rarer we have combined it with true and open communication 5th chakra.
It goes exponentially rare to meet people who are connected on a 'psychic' level 6th chakra... and then even more rare on the deepest creational level 7th chakra.. that can be only felt and is beyond words and explanations.

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ILO6fR9uxy.../soulmates.jpg

So simply make sure your energy centers are functioning well and you have made up your mind which centers you wish to connect to this other person... then just wait for the manifestation. I for one am seeking for a full fusion on all 7 levels (they explain in the materials of RA well what this full fusion means).. anything else bellow is a waste of time on my current path and a waste of energy.

In my view a true fusion connection is not only love and happiness. It is someone who resonates with your energy and propels you upward, changes your very matrix of being and with the unity produced you become jointly more than the sum of yourselves as individuals. It feels as if you can achieve anything (and you can really achieve and manifest a whole lot more than individually) with this person because you now have both the polarities connected through all 7 energy centers and can fully operate from a level above (where things unite). It is no longer even based only love (as that is only the 4th center), it is based on the very core of your being.. it is simply based on raw creative energy which fuses into one being.

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I have a new fantasy girlfriend: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VrVlBrooxcM I love this video! Here's some behind the scenes video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BGIa5UZeEB8. I've decided that the male/female discontinuities and inherent conflicts make relationships very difficult...especially when conflicting speculative philosophies and spiritualities are involved. Females are more advanced in so many respects. My theory is that men have been brutalized by thousands or even millions of years of war, hard labor...and outright enslavement. Guys who are trying to break out of this mould don't seem to be very desirable specimens. I don't see a light at the end of the tunnel at this time. I continue to admire the ladies in so many ways...but I don't intend to seek a relationship. It's just me and YouTube.

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well i'm single and it sounds like a good idea. i can't find anyone who believes what i believe or has had experiences i've had. so if anyone wants to chat let me know. 36, healthy male, amazing cook.

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should women find men, 5, or 10 years younger than they are ???