Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff.
 

I understand. Sorry for your moments.

My partner is getting knocked off her chair with the proof of things.
Just a second ago she asked me what pudding would I like tonight? "her turn to cook tonight"
I said I wish for apple pie. The phone rings and my mother say "oh btw, if you want some apples, mine are ripe!! Help yourself"

They will all understand one day :) Stay strong ;)

peace and care

Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff.
 

My husband is also a bit distressed that I have been doing so much reading on forums, websites, etc. This forum being a favorite of mine.

I have concluded that the best way to tell him some of what I read is to preface it with " For entertainment purposes only"..... This way he actually listens without putting on the blinders and ear muffs. I figure, in time, he might actually engage himself more into possibilities and consider "what ifs".

I told him I read. I read a great deal. Whether it be on the internet or a magazine or a book. I read. I gather information and then ponder, think, consider and come to my own conclusions.

I find this Avalon forum to be a delight. Folks coming together all over the world to discuss common interests. Wonderful!!

Peace. Make your husband a special dessert. ;-)

Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff.
 

I see where Tuza's husband is coming from. From an American--Californian to be exact--perspective, if you are familiar with the immense mix of people associated with during any jury duty call or DMV office, there's a WIDE cross section of people OUT THERE.

He just may not be aware of the GOOD part(s).

Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff.
 

Someone once said a friend is someone before whom I can think outloud. Given that definition, there are very few, if any, friends in the world. This is not a stupid question SkyWatcher. The woman I live with threatened to kick me out of the house after the star people visited my house the third time. You would think she was tired of me inviting the boys over for poker night. I told them they had to lay off coming to my house. Plus the black helicopters were starting to look like a flying circus. So they have not visited since, except for my liason. They actually assigned a person to interact with me and he comes most of the time in vivid dreams. They told me they cause a lot of divorces. This experience has definitely changed our relationship. She knows I research the ufo phenomenon and all that. She tells me to "get my feet back on the ground." Whatever that means. I have had a forty year relationship with people from other planets. They came to me. I did not come to them. They are, I assume, contacting me for a reason. They do everything for a reason, and I hope I have not let them down in their expectations since they have put a lot of energy into our relationship. The full sociologic impact with contact experience and how it changes relationships has yet to be investigated, so far as I know. They are here. They are real. They aint gonna go away. Makes my life more interesting having my own personal X File. Peace.
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Re: Just been told not very nicely by husband to stop reading this stuff.
 

its true that our experiences can have a scary impact on loved ones, and while we are going through so many adjustments, they may feel frightened, and take it out on the ones they love.